In spite of what the religious trad/cons say, the kind of men that modern-day women are not attracted to are those who have contributed as much, if not more, to society’s advancement than the macho he-man types (and those trying to patronize these women and their own agenda) through research, technology and advanced study. Einstein himself was appreciated for who he was and certainly by him being allowed to be who he became was not suppressed by the macho mindset that would have hampered his development and contributions to society. By forcing and shaming men into conformity, a robotic, stoic mold, we will disallow men to be real people able to think for and be themselves. Be a real man, act like a man–no, enough of that coercive nonsense. As far as contributions to society, are not sports as much a waste of time and effort as playing video games? Think about it; we don’t see these religious trad/con nut-jobs condemning men for sports and watching football or other sports, yet this is just as non-productive as other men playing video/computer games. Women even have problems with the macho guys and their obsessions with watching sports. It takes attention away from them. But many women concede by tolerating or even participating in these activities mostly to appease men. (They can often in this way extract attention to themselves too.)As for war, we must also be good sports. We need to have a few disposable pawns (only men) to show good faith, right? Be proud ‘real men’ to be disposable pawns for your country and for women (the real casualties of war–Hillary Clinton). Men are beasts of burden and disposable pawns not even worthy of sorrow or their loss, since they have no other value as real people anyway.
The computer-savvy nerd is now used to target and guide missiles in the military. Stop the he-man/macho BS. Both men and women need to stop trying to mold men and concentrate more on targeting the problem–modern women and the misandry harbored by them that consumes them and our society as a whole. Hold women and the men who cater to them accountable, certainly do not sculpt ourselves to appease them!. We don’t apply some archaic mold as the standard for all women and shame them into conforming to it. Imagine what an uproar even the attempt that would create. Allow men to be themselves and only the best women will conform to them, no, better, will join with them due to a shared good female character that is absent from most women in modern society. Where will men even find these mates–in other countries and in new generations of women who are more perceptive to men and much kinder in character. Men must not cater to the demands of women. Instead, men need to just be whole (who they are as their own individual persons) and only the worthy women will be attracted to them for their own personal sake, nothing else.
Alan Millard continues to be a prominent men’s equality advocate since the early ’80s. He began writing his first book, Equality: A Man’s Claim, in the Spring of 1983. He has been thereafter continually affiliated with the major men’s rights organizations and has contributed many articles, radio, and some television broadcasts. His work includes research conducted through his graduate and doctoral coursework and knowledge acquired through his independent studies and colleague associations as a university professor. He heads the group Men’s Equality on Facebook. He is the author of three books addressing men’s equality concerns. His most recent book, A Flaw From Within: How Women’s Higher Status Defies Equal Justice, Violates Men, and Destroys Society, is available through Amazon.